is my husband passive aggressive?
By anonymous from hickory, nc on July 27, 2006 in Passive-Aggressive Personality Disorder
We have been married for 42yrs. he was very controlling after i became pregnant with our 1st child. i was going to get a divorce, but he cried and begged. of course i believed him as i was young and ignorant. our 2nd child was born i yr. after our 1st.we only had 2 children. i was not allowed to make a decision of any kind for myself. he forbade me to read,wear make-up, have friends,take my babies to the park. I Had started to realize that he was not normal.when my younger child started school i did stand up to him about the kid's. i would not let him control their lives with his sick mind. my son graduated and joined the military by this time he was getting somewhat better. i started my own business.was gone most of the time, by this time i had quit sleeping with him. he became very nice.we moved from ohio,where we had lived all oue lives, to n.c. our daughter has lived here for 20yrs. our son moved here from n.m. I was so happy.
That was my dream for many yrs. to have all of us together again. i also have many friends here. well the day the last load was here he changed. he started getting angry. we were celebrating and all my friends were having a good time. he dug a hole in the yard, broke a water line.he would send someone out to get pieces of pipe. he stsrted to pick on my daughter-in-law. we have been here for 3yrs. it has been non stop aggravation. he does things to anoy me every day. he take's out his teeth and sits on the porch. he interrupts all conversations, he lies about everything, he will talk non stop if someone is polite enough to listen. i can't say everything he does, because there is so much.my daughter is a social worker . she and i both think it is passive aggressive. what do you think?
thank you, anonymous |
