What does this mean?
By Anonymous from Texas on May 30, 2006 in Relationship Counseling
I am happyly married to a great guy!
I just have one problem, although I have feeling for my husband I still can not forget one of my past boyfriends that I was very serious with.
I enjoy talking to my ex when I do I feel like my heart is pounding and my old feelings are starting to come back!
I have not spoke with my ex for at least 2 years till a couple of days ago and the feelings come back.
I don't know if this means that I made a huge mistake with my marrage and married the wrong man because me and my ex has been broken up for at least 6 years but yet there is something there still after all these years the feelings are so powerful. My ex says that he feels the same way and never has found another person for him still.
I don't know if I feel this way because when I dated this guy we were really serious he was my first real love and the first that I ever had sex with. I thought I was going to marry him for the longest time and my feelings are so strong for him, but I truely do have feelings for my husband it just seems like I have so much stronger feelings when I talk to my ex.
What does this mean? Does it mean that I made the biggest mistake of my life and married the wrong man for me, or does it just mean that the reason why I do have feelings for him is because he was a serious boyfriend for me in the past and I experienced a lot of my first times with him.
Please help me I don't know what this means, I need to know if I'm hurting my husband in the long run because I'm in love with another man or what else does it mean?
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